The issue is his evasiveness with his phone. He keeps it on him like superglue. It's never out in the open. When he gets calls around me sometimes he ignores them saying %26quot;oh, its my sister and I don't want to talk to her right now%26quot;. If he gets a text he doesn't even look at his phone to check it, which makes me leery about this. When he spends the night he %26quot;forgot his charger%26quot; so his phone is dead all night. Not to mention, when he does get texts and were in the car, he sideswipes his phone so I can't see the screen. This cell phone activity is what really got me seeing redflags.
Now, he's telling me that I invaded his privacy and that he is hurt about the way I went about this. He hasn't talked to me in 3 days and recently texted me that he loves me so much but that he's mad at me for checking his voicemail and that he's not going anywhere but that he needs time to think about this situation without other peoples input.
I still have access to his voicemail, until he changes his pin which I think he doesn't know he has to, lol. I haven't checked it since though because I know I have to stop snooping, yet I'm tempted, but I won't.
I know I%26quot;m wrong for it, but I've been played the fool before and I just had to be sure! Please don't judge me about how stupid I was for doing what I did...I just want to know if you would be able to get past this if you really loved your girlfriend.Would you forgive your girlfriend for checking your voicemail?Sooo just cuz he has friends that are girls and talks to them means he is ******* them right??
you need to trust him.
Him not checking his text oranswering his phone when he is with you can be a good thing. my gf would be on my cock constantly if i ignored texts and calls for her.
but you ***** and complain about it??
Women dont know what they want.. bottom line i dont give a **** what any of you women say its true.Would you forgive your girlfriend for checking your voicemail?I not reading all that.
Would you forgive your girlfriend for checking your voice-mail?
Only if I had something to hide.Would you forgive your girlfriend for checking your voicemail?yeah id get over it.. but i would be highly annoyedWould you forgive your girlfriend for checking your voicemail?Well now you know better..live and learn. I agree he has a right to be upset. There are NO signs that he is cheating.Anyways give him his time like he asked. But you gotta know relationships are nothing without trust. If he dumps you he is only doing what he thinks is best for himself, that doesn't mean he never loved you. But I wouldn't be surprised if he doubts your love for him now. Like I said live and learn. Next relationship you get into, stop yourself from looking at the guy's phone.
